Day 1 (Take Action)

My blog usually takes on a stance of trying to fix problems. I find that most of the time, I don’t get a lot of responses to what I write. Maybe because we don’t want to own up to the fact that we have issues. That’s okay.

This month, I have decided to take on a different approach. 30 DAYS OF GRATITUDE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. Being thankful for what we have whether it be a great marriage, or a not so great marriage can go a long way to creating change. If we take some time to acknowledge your partner for who they are in your life may melt some of the anger you have toward them. It may just melt your heart as well.

Today, will be the hardest part. Taking action! You will start off by communicating to your partner about this 30 day challenge. They may choose not to participate. Don’t let that stop you, taking part in this challenge may help your issues. Decide if there is a special place you plan to leave the notes, or will you make it a surprise and they will have to find them. Second, purchase some stationary for your notes to each other plus a journal for your own thoughts. Don’t spend a lot of money on this remember, “It’s the thought that counts.”

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Keith has over a decade of experience in the field, counseling and coaching individuals, couples, teens and their parents to help them improve their relationships and their ability to achieve their personal goals. For the past seven years Keith has developed specific programs to help teens and their families achieve success in all facets of their lives that may have eluded them in the past. Academics, relationships, athletics, college preparation and applications, goal setting and developing specific plans are areas where working with Keith as a Coach can help young people set the patterns that promise a brilliant future. He works with couples to help them achieve the kind of relationship they envisioned when they first made their commitment to each other. Strengthening communication and revitalizing their understanding and empathy for each other helps couples regain the romance and closeness they long for – even in their everyday “real” world. Having a coach is like having a GPS for life. Keith can help you get a realistic picture of where you are and focus on the best path forward toward your goals. Unlike counseling, coaching focuses on the future, not the past.

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