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Posted by on April 7, 2015 in Marriage Madness


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Your husband has feelings too!

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Last week there was an interesting article I read, 15 Things A Wife is Embarrassed to tell my Husband I need.

What struck me was her candor and how hard it was to find the same type of emotions from men.

But we do!

Maybe that’s one of the problems in relationships. We just expect husbands to never have issues. Since we never discuss them openly, our wives often scratch their heads when we run away from them and share our problems with a stranger.

Well I wanted to shed light on some of the issues that husbands might have so they can be discussed.

Click here to read what some of them might be.

Has your husband had any of these issues?  How did you go about talking about them.

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Posted by on March 4, 2015 in Marriage Madness


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Simply Titled ‘Robin’ – 14 Reasons why Paula Patton is not ready to reconcile!

If you haven’t notice, Robin Thicke has been pulling out all the stops to get his estranged wife Paula Patton back into his life. Since he has an award winning singer-songwriter, he has tried the only way he feels can get her back. By writing 14 new songs and aptly naming the title of his new album ‘Paula’. 

The public hasn’t completely caught to his new album, selling only 2,400 new copies and debuting at #9 on the billboard chart. The one person that really hasn’t embraced the outward displays of remorse is Paula Patton herself. 

In a shocking revelation, Paula Patton herself has created an album simply titled ‘Robin’. Since she isn’t a trained singer, or a songwriter, she has created 14 cover tunes on why she is having problem taking him back.

1. All I Cried out (Jill Scott)
Never wanted to see things my way
Tell me why were you such a fool
Always thought the grass was greener on the other side
Never miss your water till your well run dry
And now, now I’m I’m sad and so confused
‘Cause I’m all cried out, oh yeah yeah

 2You’re not the Man (Sade)

You’re not the man who threw me a lifeline
And you’re not the man I am so proud to call mine
And you’re not the one who said he’d never leave
The one who made me believe in me
That was someone who could do no wrong and you lost him

3. Living in Confusion (Phyllis Hyman)

I had faith in you
Just knew you wouldn’t hurt me
But you played a game
You should be ashamed
I let my guard down
I was so vulnerable
I hope you had your fun
Don’t you know I was loyal to you?

4. Love Don’t Live Here Anymore (Rose Royce)

When you lived inside of me; there was nothing I could conceive
That you wouldn’t do for me
Trouble seemed so far away; you changed that right away, baby
You abandoned me
Love don’t live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don’t live here anymore

 5Black Cat (Janet Jackson)

You’re so together boy; but just at a glance
You’ll do anything; if given a chance
Scheming, plannin lies; to get what you need
So full of promises; that you never keep
Don’t you tell yourself; that it’s okay
Sick and tired of; All of your games
And you want me to stay; better change
Makes no sense to me; your crazy ways

6. The Love we have stays on my mind (Joss Stone)

And lately girl, I’ve been remembering
The good times that we used to share
My thoughts of you don’t have an ending
And memories of you are everywhere
 But why should I tell you, it’s not your concern
You win some, you lose some
Well I’ve lost and I’ve learned
It’s just that I’m so lonely
With no place to turn
And here at the end, I find
Yes I do

7. Don’t Take me for Granted (Atlantic Starr)

 I’ll be the fountain that fills you up but just..
Don’t take me for granted
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
Make time for love and so will I
I really wanna make this work
I wanna see it through
Forget me not, or I’ll say goodbye

8. Teach U a Lesson (Robin Thicke)

Uve been a bad boy
Someone’s gonna have 2 teach u a lesson
Uve been a bad boy
Someones gonna have 2 straighten u right out
Uve been a bad boy
Someone’s gonna have 2 teach u
Teach u teach u teach u

9. Could have been you (Joss Stone)

There’s no gain; only pain
My heart can’t take the strain
I can’t sit; on the shelf
I’ll give my love to someone else
If you see me walking by
Hand-in-hand with another guy
Know that it’s true
It could have been you
If you’d only treated me right
Out of sight, baby out of mind
That’s what you do
It could have been you

10. Good Times (The Jacksons)

I think about the good times
Nothing but the good times
I think about the good times
We shared together
It’s funny things don’t always
Go the way you want them to
Although we’re not together
(Although we’re not together)
I treasure my experience with you
11. I forgive you (Rachelle Farrell)
It doesn’t really matter whether or not I understand
It doesn’t really matter whether or not you’re still my man
I still love you… and
 I forgive you
I forgive you
I forgive you
Totally completely now
What a freedom just releasing from my heart
From my mind and soul!

12. I will always love you (Whitney Houston)

I hope life treats you kind
And I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of
And I wish you joy and happiness
But above all this I wish you love
 And I… will always love you
13. Irreplaceable (Beyonce)
 So since I’m not your everything (irreplaceable)
How about I’ll be nothing (nothing)? Nothing at all to you (nothing, nothing)
Baby I won’t shed a tear for you (I won’t shed a tear for you)
I won’t lose a wink of sleep (a wink of sleep)
‘Cause the truth of the matter is (truth is)
Replacing you is so easy

14. Blame it on Me (Chrisette Michelle)

Yes I love you but I really got to lose you
Freedom is where I want to be
Yes I’ll probably always love you
But I’m moving
I got to do this for me


iLoveStrong’s Top Super Bowl Commercials 2014

The Super Bowl Commercials this year were very similar to the game. Very boring. Who knew that you could have so many car commercials jammed into one football game. Since Strive 2 Succeed in Marriage & Coach Keith love sports and relationships, , we were able to find some great one’s that focused on Love, just like last year’s post. Here they are!

Honorable Mention – Bad Prom Night (Turbo Tax)- Because I had one of these, my junior year.

# 5 – The Stud Cow – You know I have to throw the one sexually explicit commercial in there. Since it’s all about relationships.

#4 – Puppy Love – I loved this commercial because sometimes even though we may seem incompatible to other people, we can’t help who are friends are, or who we Love.

#3 – Make Love not War (Axe Commercial) – This was good because, you weren’t expecting the outcome. Sometime’s that is how love is. It’s not always nice and neat.

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#2 – Cheerios – This commercial was fantastic because it had a gamut of emotions. I was glad they did another commercial especially  since the first commercial that introduced this family had so many haters. It was great to see the love of this interracial couple and the love between father and daughter.

#1 – Tuesday is World Cancer Day – With no words being said, this was clearly my favorite commercial. As the husband was driving miles to take his wife to her cancer treatment.  That’s pure love right there. Don’t Leave, that’s what you asked of me! Priceless.


Which ads spoke to you tonight when it comes to LOVE? Discuss!

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Posted by on February 3, 2014 in Marriage Madness


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iLoveStrong’s Top Super Bowl Commercials

Here are the top 5 iLoveStrong Commercials that I liked during the Super Bowl.

 1. Dodge Ram – God made a Farmer. This commercial represents everything iLoveStrong is all about.

2. Clydesdales Brotherhood: Budweiser – iLoveStrong liked the connection between breeder and horse.

3. Doritos – Fashionista Daddy – iLoveStrong loves Dads that play with their daughters, even if it’s for some chips.

4. Audi – Prom. iLoveStrong loves when you just go for it. It reminded me of my Junior Prom. My dad should have given me an Audi..I might have kissed the girl I wanted to.

5. Volkswagon – Get In, Get Happy – iLoveStrong believes in having fun, not taking yourself seriously and living in the moment.

Honorable Mention:

Taco Bell – Viva Young. – iLoveStrong loved this commercial. It was just plain funny.

What was your favorite Super Bowl commercial?


Posted by on February 4, 2013 in Marriage Madness


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Marriage Question of the Day



Here is the Marriage Question of the Day.  Has the book ’50 Shades of Grey’, or any other erotic material changed the ways you view sex and expressing your sexuality when it comes to your spouse?

If you were interested in exploring your sexuality in your marriage, how would you approach it with your spouse?

I look forward to hearing your responses!

Coach Keith



Posted by on January 30, 2013 in Marriage Madness


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Maintaining your Relationship is a lot like selling your house!

PG and I and the rest of the fam are trying to move. Our quaint, two-bedroom house in Northern NJ has become quite small for our family of 5 plus a dog and several tropical fish. We were ready to take the leap in 2008, but it was a blessing we stayed put. It was right before the financial crisis and it might have altered our lives forever.

Another reason we hadn’t lef is because all the work you have to put in to get a house ready to sell. It’s a lot like maintaining a healthy marriage.

Step #1 – Look for all the trouble spots.

When you decide you are going to allow other people to view your home, you must determine the little things that might deter a person from buying it. A broken light fixture, or bad lighting just might be the difference from someone liking your house. Your relationship is the same way. If you don’t step back and think about your appearance and how you present yourself to your spouse and communicate it may hold them back from experiencing true intimacy.


Step #2 – If you are committed, put the work in.

Put the work in and spruce it up. You can do simple things like changing the bedding, getting new curtains, and shower accessories to give your house a fresh new look. Relationships are no different. Sometimes you have to switch things up, in order to make it fresh. Things like going on a adventure, or to a different restaurant may go a long way to help foster a stronger relationship.

Step #3 – If things are really bad, bring in the contractor.

Sometimes the simple things aren’t enough, there are changes that need to be made that you can’t do by yourself. If you are still trying to maintain your daily routine of running a family and working, you can’t always take a step back and do the work necessary to make those changes. We needed a contractor. Relationships are no different. Relationships can be so bad, you may have to bring in a coach to strip away the bitterness, apathy and heartache that’s causing this relationship to not be at it’s best.  He/she can help you put on a fresh coat of love, affection, communication and understanding toward your partner.


Step #4 – Maintenance, Maintenance and more Maintenance!

This is the hardest job of all. You never know when someone is going to want to see your house. So every morning your house has to look presentable. In relationships, you have to constantly check in with your partner and not take things for granted. I know stepping out of your comfort zone to get an assessment of your marriage can be a little unsettling. Don’t be afraid! You never know when something unexpected happens to change the course of your relationship. By having a strong bond with one another, you can weather those unforeseen circumstances.

Step #5 – Stay positive! It only takes one!

Despite all the progress and the work we have put in, it may take awhile to get an offer. We plan to stay positive and you should too. Your relationship may also progress slowly. Stay encouraged. As long as you are following the steps, the changes will come and your relationship will be stronger than ever before.

Strivers! Make it a great week.

I will keep you posted on the house.

Coach Keith


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