My response to a couple that has a sexless marriage.


Hello Strivers!

Did you guys hear about the the husband that was so frustrated by his current sex life with his wife that he e-mailed her a detailed spreadsheet to his wife as she was heading to heads to the airport for a 10-day business trip?

As one of my friends said, “It was funny, sad, hurtful and courageous all at the same time and all in one document.

Well here was my response to that article, on how I would help him.

Did I give him the right advice.  Click Here, if you would like to read and share it.

Simply Titled ‘Robin’ – 14 Reasons why Paula Patton is not ready to reconcile!

If you haven’t notice, Robin Thicke has been pulling out all the stops to get his estranged wife Paula Patton back into his life. Since he has an award winning singer-songwriter, he has tried the only way he feels can get her back. By writing 14 new songs and aptly naming the title of his new album ‘Paula’. 

The public hasn’t completely caught to his new album, selling only 2,400 new copies and debuting at #9 on the billboard chart. The one person that really hasn’t embraced the outward displays of remorse is Paula Patton herself. 

In a shocking revelation, Paula Patton herself has created an album simply titled ‘Robin’. Since she isn’t a trained singer, or a songwriter, she has created 14 cover tunes on why she is having problem taking him back.

1. All I Cried out (Jill Scott)
Never wanted to see things my way
Tell me why were you such a fool
Always thought the grass was greener on the other side
Never miss your water till your well run dry
And now, now I’m I’m sad and so confused
‘Cause I’m all cried out, oh yeah yeah

 2You’re not the Man (Sade)

You’re not the man who threw me a lifeline
And you’re not the man I am so proud to call mine
And you’re not the one who said he’d never leave
The one who made me believe in me
That was someone who could do no wrong and you lost him

3. Living in Confusion (Phyllis Hyman)

I had faith in you
Just knew you wouldn’t hurt me
But you played a game
You should be ashamed
I let my guard down
I was so vulnerable
I hope you had your fun
Don’t you know I was loyal to you?

4. Love Don’t Live Here Anymore (Rose Royce)

When you lived inside of me; there was nothing I could conceive
That you wouldn’t do for me
Trouble seemed so far away; you changed that right away, baby
You abandoned me
Love don’t live here anymore
Just a vacancy
Love don’t live here anymore

 5Black Cat (Janet Jackson)

You’re so together boy; but just at a glance
You’ll do anything; if given a chance
Scheming, plannin lies; to get what you need
So full of promises; that you never keep
Don’t you tell yourself; that it’s okay
Sick and tired of; All of your games
And you want me to stay; better change
Makes no sense to me; your crazy ways

6. The Love we have stays on my mind (Joss Stone)

And lately girl, I’ve been remembering
The good times that we used to share
My thoughts of you don’t have an ending
And memories of you are everywhere
 But why should I tell you, it’s not your concern
You win some, you lose some
Well I’ve lost and I’ve learned
It’s just that I’m so lonely
With no place to turn
And here at the end, I find
Yes I do

7. Don’t Take me for Granted (Atlantic Starr)

 I’ll be the fountain that fills you up but just..
Don’t take me for granted
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
Make time for love and so will I
I really wanna make this work
I wanna see it through
Forget me not, or I’ll say goodbye

8. Teach U a Lesson (Robin Thicke)

Uve been a bad boy
Someone’s gonna have 2 teach u a lesson
Uve been a bad boy
Someones gonna have 2 straighten u right out
Uve been a bad boy
Someone’s gonna have 2 teach u
Teach u teach u teach u

9. Could have been you (Joss Stone)

There’s no gain; only pain
My heart can’t take the strain
I can’t sit; on the shelf
I’ll give my love to someone else
If you see me walking by
Hand-in-hand with another guy
Know that it’s true
It could have been you
If you’d only treated me right
Out of sight, baby out of mind
That’s what you do
It could have been you

10. Good Times (The Jacksons)

I think about the good times
Nothing but the good times
I think about the good times
We shared together
It’s funny things don’t always
Go the way you want them to
Although we’re not together
(Although we’re not together)
I treasure my experience with you
11. I forgive you (Rachelle Farrell)
It doesn’t really matter whether or not I understand
It doesn’t really matter whether or not you’re still my man
I still love you… and
 I forgive you
I forgive you
I forgive you
Totally completely now
What a freedom just releasing from my heart
From my mind and soul!

12. I will always love you (Whitney Houston)

I hope life treats you kind
And I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of
And I wish you joy and happiness
But above all this I wish you love
 And I… will always love you
13. Irreplaceable (Beyonce)
 So since I’m not your everything (irreplaceable)
How about I’ll be nothing (nothing)? Nothing at all to you (nothing, nothing)
Baby I won’t shed a tear for you (I won’t shed a tear for you)
I won’t lose a wink of sleep (a wink of sleep)
‘Cause the truth of the matter is (truth is)
Replacing you is so easy

14. Blame it on Me (Chrisette Michelle)

Yes I love you but I really got to lose you
Freedom is where I want to be
Yes I’ll probably always love you
But I’m moving
I got to do this for me