6 Ways Single Moms Can Raise Their Son To Exemplify Positive Masculinity.

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When your relationship ends after you have children, you may worry about many things.

Work-life balance, guilt for not being able to spend as much time at home, and fatigue from trying to carry the entire load — emotionally, cognitively, and psychologically.

And if you’re raising sons, you may have an additional worry: How do you raise them to exhibit the positive qualities of manhood?

Boys need positive male role models who can show them traits of positive masculinity.

But what if your ex-husband has no plans to financially, socially, emotionally, or mentally raise your son to be the man you want him to be?

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Did you know that Presidents Barack Obama and Bill Clinton, actor Leonardo DiCaprio, and comedian Kevin Hart are just a few successful men that have been raised by single mothers?

To read what positive masculinity looks like when you are a single mom raising your son, click here.

14 Quotes That Highlight The Traits Needed For Today’s Dad.

In a recent article, Do Father’s Really Make A Difference, it’s clear that when a father and mother live together, the kids perform better in school, and have lower rates of delinquency and substance.

But, it’s not about just being present. The role model a father can play can help a child feel connected and learn lessons that will strengthen them.
So what are some of those personality traits that will do just that? Here are 14 of the best quotes that will describe the traits you need to make a difference in your child’s life.

1.Patience

Your kids will test you as they grow and mature. Having patience is essential.

You will even need Patience with yourself. Don’t waver when things get hard. Stay the course.

2. Values

When you have values that are rooted in something higher than yourself it guides your decision making.

Having strong values not only helps you share yourself, but also helps you pass down your legacy to your children.

3. Open-Minded

Being open-minded means you understand you’re raising children than yourself. Be able to teach as well as learn.

Being open-minded enough to express their own thoughts and pursue their own dreams and goals will help your children thrive.

4. Loving

Consistently showing love to your family is vital. Your kids will do better in school, be more empathetic and avoid risky behaviors.

The more love you show, the more love you will get back. Love is about being vulnerable.

5. Loyalty

Being loyal means you will be there no matter what, especially during the hard times.

When your family gets attacked by life, a loyal father must hang in there. It’s what makes the family stronger.

6.Honesty

Relationships are built on trust and being honest. It’s not about being perfect, but you must do what you say you are going to do.

When you are honest with your children, they will feel safe and share their life with you. It’s what intimate relationships are built on.

7. Lead by Example

As the co-leader of the family what he does and the choices he makes will have a ripple effect throughout the entire family. Leading by example is about planting seeds.

Fatherhood is about being a role model. It will not only make your family happier and more stable, but it will also make the community and the world a better place to live.

 

If you’re a father, figure out which of these traits you are missing and work on them. Practice them until you can display them consistently and meaningfully with your family. You will be happy that you did and your kids will be happy too.

If you are stuck with figuring out how to incorporate some of these traits into your life and you need help contact me info@strive2succeedcoaching.com.