14 Quotes That Highlight The Traits Needed For Today’s Dad.

In a recent article, Do Father’s Really Make A Difference, it’s clear that when a father and mother live together, the kids perform better in school, and have lower rates of delinquency and substance.

But, it’s not about just being present. The role model a father can play can help a child feel connected and learn lessons that will strengthen them.
So what are some of those personality traits that will do just that? Here are 14 of the best quotes that will describe the traits you need to make a difference in your child’s life.

1.Patience

Your kids will test you as they grow and mature. Having patience is essential.

You will even need Patience with yourself. Don’t waver when things get hard. Stay the course.

2. Values

When you have values that are rooted in something higher than yourself it guides your decision making.

Having strong values not only helps you share yourself, but also helps you pass down your legacy to your children.

3. Open-Minded

Being open-minded means you understand you’re raising children than yourself. Be able to teach as well as learn.

Being open-minded enough to express their own thoughts and pursue their own dreams and goals will help your children thrive.

4. Loving

Consistently showing love to your family is vital. Your kids will do better in school, be more empathetic and avoid risky behaviors.

The more love you show, the more love you will get back. Love is about being vulnerable.

5. Loyalty

Being loyal means you will be there no matter what, especially during the hard times.

When your family gets attacked by life, a loyal father must hang in there. It’s what makes the family stronger.

6.Honesty

Relationships are built on trust and being honest. It’s not about being perfect, but you must do what you say you are going to do.

When you are honest with your children, they will feel safe and share their life with you. It’s what intimate relationships are built on.

7. Lead by Example

As the co-leader of the family what he does and the choices he makes will have a ripple effect throughout the entire family. Leading by example is about planting seeds.

Fatherhood is about being a role model. It will not only make your family happier and more stable, but it will also make the community and the world a better place to live.

 

If you’re a father, figure out which of these traits you are missing and work on them. Practice them until you can display them consistently and meaningfully with your family. You will be happy that you did and your kids will be happy too.

If you are stuck with figuring out how to incorporate some of these traits into your life and you need help contact me info@strive2succeedcoaching.com.

Raising Boys Is Hard, But I’m Still Thankful I Got The Job.

I always thought  raising a teenage daughter would be challenging. From empowering her to be the best she can be to making sure she doesn’t get hurt by some boy or man. I had a lot to worry about.

I was wrong. Raising my two boys has been the hardest most frustrating thing I’ve ever done. From possibly being harmed by your own peer group, to doing something drastic to affirm you are the young men you say you are. Let’s not forget the daily arguments reminding them to pick up after themselves, I constantly struggle with the fact that I might not be the best man for the job.

To read more about why raising boys is hard, click here.

Relationship Gratitude – Day 14 (You got to have a J.O.B.!)

In today’s culture, the husband or the wife can be the primary wage earner in the house. That can bring a different dynamic when it comes to managing the family unit. That doesn’t mean that one job of managing your family is more important than the other.

Acknowledge your partner’s financial, practical, and emotional contributions to the household. Look him/her in the eye and say, “Thank you for working to support our family,” or Thank you for doing the laundry,”  or Thank you for being a great husband, or wife; a great dad, or mother.”