Sex can be fun if you allow it to. As we progress in our marriage and we are having sex, we think about:
- Am I doing it right?
- Is she screaming because she is enjoying it, or is it just to make me feel good?
- I can’t wait until he’s finished so I can (fill in the blank).
- Is that all he’s got?
- Is she just going to lay there, while I do all the work?
Set aside time in sex to just have fun. Healthy sex requires you and your partner to communicate. Sex is healthy when you talk about it – your wants, desires, likes, dislikes, fears, etc…
Let’s think about this logically, how do ever know what we like or dislike. We study, experiment, taste, touch, feel.
Why don’t we do that with sex? It’s clear women are looking for it! 50 Shades of Grey anyone!
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